Community standards

Short on purpose. You agree to it when you join.

  1. 1

    18 or older

    Everyone here is an adult. You confirm your age when you join; we keep the band, not the date.

  2. 2

    Consent, always

    No means no, and silence means no. Interest is shown, never assumed. A pass is final for a month.

  3. 3

    No harassment

    One message that goes unanswered is the end of it. Pressure, insults and threats get you removed.

  4. 4

    No doxxing, no screenshots

    What someone shows you stays between you. Sharing a photo, a name or a workplace outside the app is grounds for removal.

  5. 5

    Photos stay private

    Photos are served only after a grant. Explicit images belong at stop 1 or higher, never on the cover.

  6. 6

    Be who you say

    One person, one account. Pretending to be a couple, or someone you're not, gets you removed.

  7. 7

    Report, don't retaliate

    Block and Report are one tap from every person's page. A person reads every report.